How Do You Switch Off?

Yes, how do you switch off?  You know when you need to switch off from the day, when you need to take a moment's peace, how do you switch off?  Maybe you read a book, watch TV, listen to music, go for a walk, which are all great ways to destress, but how do you…

Side Chick Alert

Ok just to be clear this post is NOT a side chick battering but a side chick offering. I want to talk to all the side chicks who are knowingly or unknowingly putting themselves into this role (of the other woman or any woman accepting anything short of her worth).  Stop it now!  #SideChickAlert  Why?…

That Girl in the Dark #Poem

Are you that girl in the dark? Crying into her pillow after laughing all day, in the night. Are you that girl in the dark? Hiding behind her smiles, afraid to radiate her bright light. Are you that girl in the dark? Battling internally with herself because she’s afraid of the courage needed to fight.…

Vajazzle Your Self-Worth & Beat The Bitch!

Vajazzle means to adorn the pubic area (of a woman) with crystals, glitter, or other decoration.   The saddest thing that I hear quite regularly in my classes as well my daily interactions, more so from women, are statements such as ‘I’m so rubbish’, I’m no good’ and ‘I’m stupid.’  Whilst they may seem like…

Fighting Flab Fabulously – #FitMamma’s

Okay, let me keep it real right from the start, this blog is mainly about the battles and hurdles that some mothers have to endure to shift the flab after giving birth to our wonderful and grateful children (cough). I’ve become so fed up with BS advice from people who do not understand the post-pregnancy struggles. …

From Baby Mamma to Fit Mamma: Rights of Passage

Baby Mamma I hear you cry.  Huh, why she using that term?! Well let me explain, baby mamma is a term that has been used derogatorily to refer to a mother whose essence has been devalued to just a loud mouth, no-good-baby making machine.  Although in fact there is nothing wrong in being a baby-making-machine,…